The Weekly Encourager – August 19, 2015 – The Ideal Body

I've been thinking about the ideal body. You could say that the Body is on my Mind! In Sunday's sermon, Pastor Paul Wolfe used Psalm 139 “I am fearfully and wonderfully made” as a reminder that the people of God are receivers before we can be givers. Our bodies are a gift from the Lord, to be used wisely. For an art quilt, I needed to draw a man's body, then translate that into fabric. Researching how to draw a man's body yielded some interesting results. There were several sites showing how to divide the figure into 8 equal parts, with the head being 1/8 of the total height and all else proceeding from that unit of measure. One resource, however, compared the correct proportions for four men: normal, idealistic, fashion, and heroic (larger than life!).

Next I studied a photo essay of top athletes from around the world, all dressed alike in the same black swimsuits, showing the very wide range of body types that are ideal for particular sports. The photographer shows the tall and thin bodies right next to the short and thick ones. Remember, “I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” You say, I'm not cut out for sports? Well, that's just wrong. God didn't design a single body type to sit around all day. Every physique you can imagine has at least one sport or activity for which it is ideally suited!  For best results, don't try to make a runner out of a wrestler, or a high jumper out of a jockey. Study your (or your child's) body type to get clues about which sport might be best, and find a way to make that happen.

Yesterday I read a blog post about encouraging young people to exercise. In “Ten Things I Want My Daughter to Know About Working Out,” Author Brynn Harrington tells why we shouldn't try to motivate young girls to exercise by saying how good they need to look in a certain dress. Exercise should be associated with joy and achievement, rather than chore and punishment. We motivate our children to embrace lifelong fitness by showing that physical strength has its own rewards. We feel good when we move our bodies, and fitness opens many doors that would be closed to us otherwise.

A friend and I were talking about middle and high school gym class, and how horrible it was back in the day. I agreed with him that if those gym classes had been my only exposure to physical exercise, I might hate it. How well I remember the shame of being the last chosen for any team, the slowest runner on the track, the weakest girl on pull-ups! Not to mention the embarrassment of being ridiculed by the instructor in class and the other girls in the locker room! Thank God I had ballet all through school. Here was a way to build my strength and agility with a real honest sweat-producing workout which made me feel wonderful! It didn't hurt my looks either, but that was not my main motivation for doing it. It was about finding a happy place where I could be good at something physical. I believe there's a happy place for each of us; we just have to find it.

Keeping fit can be fun, and we need to show our students how. Children usually follow our example, not our advice. Are we showing them how satisfying it is to keep our own bodies strong? We want them to be empowered, not coward. I recently read this striking thought: “Be who you needed when you were younger.” I think it applies here. What do kids really need from us now? They need to know that growing and improving and accomplishing is good stewardship of what God has given us, whether it's our hearts, minds, or bodies.

What is the ideal body? The ideal body is one that's being used to grow in grace, according to God's design and giving God the glory.

God is faithful,
j

Sermon: “David's Prayer, Part 2: David Knows the People of God” by Paul Wolfe, New Hope Presbyterian Church, 8/16/15, http://newhopefairfax.org/resources/sermons-to-hear
I learned about Howard Schatz’s Athlete series (and his book by that name) from a post on http://www.boredpanda.com/athlete-body-types-comparison-howard-schatz/
“Ten Things I Want My Daughter to Know About Working Out,” by Brynn Harrington. http://wellfesto.com/2013/11/19/10-things-i-want-my-daughter-to-know-about-working-out/
Quotation: “Be who you needed when you were younger.” by Glennon Doyle Melton. http://momastery.com/momasterys-book-picks/

The Weekly Encourager – August 14, 2015 – Slow Down!

I had gum surgery this week, and it's making me slow down. Here's an example: About a half hour ago, I prepared a beautiful plate of three veggies and salmon for my lunch, and I'm still working on that one plate of food 30 minutes later. It takes more time now to figure out what I can eat, more time to chop it all up into small pieces, more time to eat it, and more time to clean my mouth afterwards. The interesting thing is, eating slowly means I eat less, yet I don't feel any less satisfied. In fact, I feel better for having put more thought into meals. I'm also not snacking, because it's too much trouble.

The fact is that for years I've been eating too fast, out of habit. The Lord has given me this unique opportunity to examine what and how I am eating, so that I can make some changes. My challenge will be to maintain this slower speed once my mouth is completely healed.

Looking at this plate of diced food, I thought of other things I consume, such as books, movies, radio, internet media. It's pretty easy to get into a habit of going to the same web sites all the time, because they're relaxing, easy to digest, or humorous. Same thing with lightweight reading material or TV shows. There's nothing wrong with it, as long as I'm thoughtful about it. But I have found that my mind can atrophy if I give it nothing dense to chew on. Over time, I can slip into a habit of seeking more and more entertainment as a panacea for whatever ails me, to the point of neglecting serious study of God's word and other godly and/or thought-provoking books.

Recovering from surgery has meant a new opportunity to read things I hadn't made time for in a while. I slowed down and looked at what I was doing with my “free” time, rather than falling into the same mindless habits. This week, I've read some interesting books and articles which have added insight to my perspective and enriched my life. I got back into Calvin's Institutes and spent a lot less time on Pinterest. It's been refreshing. My challenge will be to maintain this slower, more thoughtful rate of consumption once I resume my normal work schedule.

Are we on a junk food diet, whether of food or other consumables? Do we snack or savor? What would it take for us to slow down and consider what we're doing, maybe make some changes? “Open thy mouth, and I will fill it with good things,” says the Lord. - Psalm 81:10 I had a dentist who hung this verse on the ceiling, so patients could read it while they reclined! It's a great concept: when we're empty, go to the Lord first to be filled. Let Him delight us with that which truly satisfies. Let the Lord teach us about fulfillment, in a way that the world never could. Jesus said, “I came that they might have life, and have it abundantly.” - John 10:10

Learning in the slow lane…
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

The Weekly Encourager – August 5, 2015 – Welcome Sign

A surprising sign was posted near the doors of a church we visited.

“Welcome. Behind these doors you'll discover people who struggle with lying, cheating, envy, greed, sexual impurity, gossiping, back biting, bickering, anger, swaggering, bullying, cruelty, meanness, arrogance, stupidity, impatience, hate, judgment, pride, and even more. We've compiled this long and sorry record as sinners and proved that we are utterly incapable of living the glorious lives that God wills for us.

“We know we need Christ. If you have discovered that you are like us, broken with contrite hearts desiring forgiveness from sin, people longing for a clean start, then

“Please Come In. For here you will find rest for your weary souls and peace with God. And not only for us, but for everyone who believes in the work of Jesus. We discovered out of sheer generosity God put us in right standing with Himself. A pure gift. He got us out of the mess we're in and restored us to where He always wanted us to be.”

I was struck by the humility of this message. I was challenged to consider how the welcome at my church compares. Do we give off a vibe that we're pretty good people now that we're saved, or are we willing to admit that we continue to fail? Do we convey an attitude of pride in our particular church or denomination, believing that we have a superior understanding of God's truth, or do we acknowledge that we're all still learning, and that some other group may have much to offer us?

“This is what the Lord says: 'Let not the wise boast of their wisdom or the strong boast of their strength or the rich boast of their riches, but let the one who boasts boast about this: that they have the understanding to know me, that I am the Lord, who exercises kindness, justice and righteousness on earth, for in these I delight,' declares the Lord.” - Jeremiah 9:23-24 ESV

What about my personal relationships? Do I give the impression that I am right and others are wrong? Do I pass judgement on others' faith or lack of faith? How about their actions? Am I afraid that showing my weaknesses might be “a bad witness” to the gospel of Jesus Christ? This church sign suggests that showing our real struggles with sin may actually aid the gospel! Christ sought the lost and welcomed sinners. His church is not for the strong, but for the weak who are held up by God's power alone. We are saved by grace, not by works, lest any man should boast. Pride offends God—beware of spiritual pride!

“You are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption, so that, as it is written, 'Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.'” - 1 Corinthians 1:30-31 ESV

God is faithful,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

[Welcome sign seen at Sierra Community Church, 1165 Sierra Blvd., South Lake Tahoe, CA 96150]

The Weekly Encourager – July 27, 2015 – Authority

On our first full day of vacation far from home I had a medical emergency. I thank God that Dave had the presence of mind to take me to an urgent care facility, since I was in too much pain to think straight. He was leading me around because I could not open my eyes. It was frightening and distressing to be in pain and to lose my eyesight. Providentially, urgent care is close to our hotel and they were great. Later, I called my brother to tell him that I might not make it to the Daniels Reunion next week, where I was signed up to organize a cookout for 30 people. He urged me to call my regular ophthalmologist back home. I reached the on-call physician, who gave specific instructions and then called in a prescription to a pharmacy here. That is the wonder of modern technology and God's providence.

Later that evening, when I could see again, I read the story of the Centurion in the book of Matthew, and the Spirit spoke to me about Authority. “Lord, I am not worthy to have you come under my roof, but only say the word, and my servant will be healed.” - Matthew 8:8. Our Lord has ALL authority in heaven and on earth, and nothing is impossible with Him. Therefore if we experience pain or difficulty, it is all in His plan. That gave me great comfort and I was able to fall asleep. Thanks be to God for His mercy and grace! My eye condition has improved with treatment, and I've been sleeping well each night here in the hotel, a huge answer to prayer.

What did I learn from this? The surprise situation caught me unprepared. You would think that a “mature” Christian would call upon the Lord right away, but I honestly didn't think of it. I had been pretty stressed for weeks, quite low on sleep, and struggling with depression. My eyes had been on the things of this world, rather than on the Lord. Sometimes I get so worked up over everything that has to be done, especially just before a trip. I try to accomplish everything perfectly on my own, as if I could provide for all my own needs, as if I were the Alpha and Omega of my own destiny. Romans tells us that this is righteousness based on works. This is idolatry.

On Sunday, we visited a church here on vacation, and the sermon was on Psalm 46. The Holy Spirit spoke directly to me, reinforcing this lesson. “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble! Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way, though the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea!” I can tell you that losing my eyesight felt like the earth giving way, and I was afraid. The Lord says, “Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!” Christ has been given all authority. He can make things happen with a word. Therefore He is the One in whom we must place our trust. No matter what happens, He will be exalted. We need not fear. “The Lord of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress.” - Psalm 46:11

I can look back on this week and realize that God had to literally take away my eyesight in order to get my eyes off of myself! The Israelites in the wilderness had to wander blindly for 40 years, but I only had to be led around for an hour. I had forgotten about the Lord, but God in His goodness provided others to care for me when I could not care for myself. Husband, hotel employee, nurse, brother, and physician were my manna from Heaven. The Lord never stopped loving me. The Lord never stopped protecting me. He truly showed Himself to be my Good Shepherd who is not willing that even one silly lamb be lost in the desert. He reminded me of my utter dependence upon His grace. He could take away my vision, my health, my family, my friends, my mental faculties, my home, or any other good gift at any time, with a single word. In Him we live and move and have our being. It is He that made us, not we ourselves. He is Authority personified. Yet He is mercy, too. I am not worthy to have Him come under my roof, yet He has come into my heart! Thank You, Lord! My heart is filled with praise.

God is faithful,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney.

The Weekly Encourager – June 26, 2015 – Can't Sleep? Try Calvin.

When I can't sleep, I pick up the Bible or some other godly book that engages my mind. Oh, did you think my title meant that Calvin will put you to sleep? Gotcha! I have found that often, when I can't sleep, the problem is that my mind is going round and round on something, and I can't get off the topic. Forcing myself to read something that involves actual effort to concentrate (especially at 3 AM) redirects my thoughts. This year a group of us are reading Institutes of the Christian Religion by John Calvin, so that's become my go-to book for sleepless nights.

Last night I was reading the section on the Ten Commandments. Since I've been studying idolatry for a Bible Study group, I was particularly interested to read what Calvin says about the first commandment. “I am Yahweh your God who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. You shall have no other gods before Me.” Exodus 20:1-3 Here are some nuggets of encouragement I found.

On the “I am” statement, Calvin writes, “It would be monstrous for us to want to withdraw from his rule when we cannot exist apart from him. God first shows himself to be the one who has the right to command and to whom obedience is due....then he attracts [us] with sweetness...in this promise: 'I will be their God, and they shall be my people.' It is as if he had spoken as follows: 'I have chosen you as my people, not only to benefit you in the present life, but also to bestow upon you the blessedness of the life to come.'” What balm to my soul! Then Calvin discusses the “brought you out of Egypt” phrase, in which God was “reminding Israel of his recent benefit, a benefit of such marvelous and everlastingly memorable greatness as also to remain in force for posterity. Moreover...the Lord means that they have been freed from miserable bondage.” This dramatic deliverance was not just for the nation of Israel, but a type of every Christian's spiritual deliverance “from the devil's deadly power.” Every time we remember this magnificent gift of freedom, it should move us powerfully against “the crime of ingratitude.”

Now to the “no strange gods” command. What exactly does that mean? Calvin says the purpose of this commandment is to establish the Lord's pre-eminence and complete authority. “Therefore, in forbidding us to have strange gods, he means that we are not to transfer to another what belongs to him. Even though there are innumerable things that we owe to God, yet they may be conveniently grouped in four headings: (1) adoration, (2) trust, (3) invocation, (4) thanksgiving. (1) 'Adoration' I call the veneration and worship that each of us, in submitting to his greatness, renders to him….[We] submit our consciences to his law. (2) 'Trust' is the assurance of reposing in him that arises from the recognition of his attributes, when – attributing to him all wisdom, righteousness, might, truth, and goodness – we judge that we are blessed only by communion with him. (3) 'Invocation' is that habit of our mind, whenever necessity presses us, of resorting to his faithfulness and help as our only support. (4) 'Thanksgiving' is that gratitude with which we ascribe praise to him for all good things.”

Calvin says that, in order to keep this commandment, “true religion must come first, to direct our minds to the living God. Thus, steeped in the knowledge of him, they [our minds] may aspire to contemplate, fear, and worship, his majesty; to participate in his blessings; to seek his help at all times; to recognize, and by praises to celebrate, the greatness of his works – as the only goal of all the activities of this life.” What rich treasure upon which to meditate. Let this become our prayer: Lord, direct our minds to You. May we be steeped in the knowledge of You so that we may adore You, trust You, turn to You in trouble, and thank You always.

I thank the Lord for giving me songs in the night. Sing His praises!

God is faithful,
j

These quotations are taken from Institutes of the Christian Religion by John Calvin, edited by John T. McNeill, translated by Ford Lewis Battles, Book Two, Chapter 8, pp. 379-383.

The Weekly Encourager – June 17, 2015 – Scammed!

I've been scammed! The Bible says, “if you think you stand, take heed lest you fall,” and I fell. For decades, I have prided myself on my excellent consumer skills, always researching items and shopping carefully in order to be the best steward of our family's funds. People call me for advice on how and where to shop, but this time I was tired and distracted and in the middle of a project when a man came offering to trim our trees.

Normally I just say, “not interested” and shut the door, but this time I was outside anyway chopping bushes, so I asked for an estimate and listened to his pitch. His wife wrote down the estimate; then he said if I paid a deposit up front, they could come back that afternoon and get the work done in the same day. I felt so comfortable with them and so tempted by the idea of crossing that chore off my list! I stupidly wrote him a check, without checking on anything. Off he went. At the appointed time, when he didn't return, I called him and he said he was running late due to another job. The phone calls and excuses continued. I went online to try to check him out, and I couldn't find him anywhere. At dinner time, I contacted my bank to stop the check, but I was too late – that check had been cashed minutes after I wrote it!

You know me: everything is a spiritual lesson. I've been preparing to lead a Bible study on Idolatry, and my preparations have included the topic of Satan's ways and wiles. After realizing that I had been scammed, my first thought was, this is exactly how Satan works! He comes when I'm not looking for him, when my body is tired and my mind is occupied. He comes with no listing, no references, no proof of insurance, and a lot of smooth talk. He looks nice, and he sounds trustworthy. It's just so easy to give in. But beware! The devil asks for a deposit before he delivers the goods.

Satan uses our idols to trip us up. For example, I value efficiency and productivity way too much, so the devil planted the thought that I could get two jobs done at once (the tree work could get done while I did other jobs, a win-win). Also, I have a lot of pride in my ability to read people to determine who is telling the truth. On top of that, I'm quite proud that I never get sucked in to scams. I'm impatient with friends who fall for these lies. Cue the eye-rolls. Oops! Satan already holds the gun. Having idols in our lives is like handing him the ammunition! That ammo is custom-made to fit into the gun aimed directly at our hearts!

God says that when we sin, we exchange the truth for a lie. Every time we sin, we've been scammed. The world, the flesh, and the devil can trick us if we're not on our guard and wearing full armor. Sometimes there is great regret for our sin, so we try to go back and fix things, but it's too late. Like the check I wrote to the tree guy, it's already been deposited in someone else's account, and I can never get it back. Satan has no intention of keeping his promises.

Thanks be to God that He offers salvation by grace! Were I to try to get to heaven on my own ability, I would be lost forever. Even in an area in which I have “very little” temptation, an area that I am “good” in, with “skills taught from childhood and honed over many years,” I can still fail! I don't want to even mention the areas in which I know I am weak and how I fail there!

In the case of the tree guy, I have reported him to the local police. They may or may not be able to help get my money back; they made no promises. I need to remember that Satan provides no refunds if we want out, but God provides redemption, restoration, and peace if we turn to Him. “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:9

God alone makes promises that He can keep. Like sheep, we need to listen for the voice of the Shepherd. We may lose a battle, but Christ has won the war. The devil is defeated. He will be destroyed. Check references! Know the Bible, especially as it relates to our particular areas of struggle. If God doesn't talk to us, someone else will. Encourage other members of the flock by referring to what the Lord has done for you. Be a character reference for the Lord by testifying of His honesty, fairness, goodness, and power to get the job done. “He is able, doubt no more.” Instead of being scammed, let's be sanctified.

God is faithful and true,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

Update on 2015-06-17 18:02 by Janet A. Marney

Update on the tree guy: I just got a refund! I give thanks to God, not only for the money, but for the spiritual lesson. God is so good!

The Weekly Encourager – June 3, 2015 – The Discipline of Love

We were depressed at a wedding, and even more depressed on our anniversary three days later.

My husband and I have been married 36 years, yet we still struggle with the same difficult issue that keeps coming up. My single friends, do you think it's hard to go to weddings when you're single? Let me tell you, it's even harder when you're married and your marriage is not measuring up to the beautiful ideal portrayed in the ceremony. Yet, God's timing is perfect. Of course we wanted to be there to rejoice with this dear young couple who seem so well suited for each other, and so loving. The Lord also had a few things to say to us.

“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures.” 1 Corinthians 13:7 NLT Being at a wedding and hearing the description of true love from the Bible is inspiring and convicting. In our personal struggle, sometimes we are discouraged that we can't seem to get it right. But this passage is first a description of God's love for us. This is the model for us to emulate, the goal that we strive for, yet it cannot happen completely in this life. Sin will always cloud our sky here. There is no perfect marriage until the wedding of Jesus Christ to His bride, the church, in Heaven.

At the wedding reception, I talked with another guest about what makes a marriage last. We agreed that there were three factors: commitment, commitment, and commitment. You have to be absolutely determined to make it work, no matter what happens. The stubborn bull-headedness Dave and I got from our Scots-Irish mountain heritage is a positive trait, for it helps us to persevere. When external forces work against us, we tend to grow closer in our marriage, but what about problems from within? What happens when your desires are not fulfilled, your expectations are not met? What happens when the other person just can't give you what you thought you would get in marriage?

Again, God's timing is perfect. In a study of Psalms, I hit Psalm 23 just before the wedding, and it hit me. This passage is often read at funerals, but maybe it should be read at weddings as well. “The Lord is my shepherd. I shall not want.” Psalm 23:1 The Lord gives me refreshment, “He prepares a table before me...my cup overflows…” etc. Newlyweds should know that there are just as many problems in marriage as there are in singleness. No matter how happy you are on your wedding day, there will be days when you have to “fight the good fight” to stay married. It takes self-discipline to remain positive, and to retain a Biblical view of relationships, but the Lord will provide.

God's Word says, “My God will supply all your needs.” Philippians 4:19 This is a promise given to every believer in Christ! But what can it mean when it feels like your needs aren't being met? That's where discipline comes in. Look more closely. It says, “My God will supply all your needs IN CHRIST JESUS,” not “in your spouse.” Psalm 23 says the One fulfilling my every need and giving me a supremely satisfying life is “THE LORD,” not “my spouse.” We dare not look to our spouse to give what only God can provide: true and total love, deep contentment, the peace that passes understanding.

If married, we dare not complain to the Lord [or anyone else] about the spouse God has provided. Adam and Eve complained, and it was sin. We are called to be thankful in ALL things, knowing that the Lord works ALL things for our good. Yes, that includes not getting good things we want (a successful romantic relationship, for example, or a better job, children, good health, a thriving church, etc.). It's all part of the discipline of love: God is disciplining us because He loves us with an everlasting love. He loves us so much that He wants to train us in righteousness, and that includes looking to Him to meet all our needs.

“Delight yourself IN THE LORD and HE will give you the desires of your heart.” Psalm 37:4 What?! If I'm not getting the desire of my heart, then I must be desiring something that He has not chosen to give me at this time. This is not a reason to get depressed, but to ask God for increased faith and hope, to trust that His plan is the best for me. His ways are higher than my ways, His wisdom is beyond my understanding. His kind of love “bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.” 1 Corinthians 13:7-8 NASB

What's getting you down: marriage or some other issue? I have found that the only way to fight depression is with discipline: God's and ours. Don't give up! He's doing His part; now we have to seek Him diligently, sincerely, habitually. We must pray without ceasing, and be thankful always. We must abide in the Word and in prayer and in song and in fellowship with other pilgrims on the path. We're all just walking each other home. Jesus is walking beside us, showing the way to joy.

This earth is not my home; my home is in Heaven, where Christ is. “Surely goodness and lovingkindness will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.” Psalm 23:6

God is faithful,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

The Weekly Encourager – May 26, 2015 – Peace Like a River

Have you ever been to one of those man-made water parks where you lay back in an inner-tube and float sweetly down a stream? I have; it is one of the most relaxing feelings in the world to glide along in complete safety, knowing that you'll end up in a good place, refreshed.  By contrast, have you ever been standing on the beach and surprised by a huge wave which tossed you around? I have; one time I was just standing there looking at the sea when a huge wave came upon me without any warning. I was tumbled so roughly that my whole body was submerged and rolled every which way under the water. The immense force of the wave twisted my leg and severely sprained my ankle. That sprain took years to heal. It's interesting that God brought both of these experiences to my life.

Today's hymn concerns a similar contrast. There are times when things are going smoothly with no major upsets in my life, and I can relax a bit. I praise the Lord. Then suddenly I lose a loved one, or there is conflict in a relationship, or there are problems at work, or a doctor's diagnosis brings fear and uncertainty. Where is God then? He is leading me, teaching me, loving me, comforting me with promises of Heaven. Whether I am flowing along on a river of peace, or whether I am tossed about in huge waves of grief, if Jesus is with me, it is well with my soul.

It Is Well With My Soul by Horatio G. Spafford,1873

When peace, like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say,
It is well, it is well with my soul.

Refrain:
It is well with my soul,
It is well, it is well with my soul.

Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come,
Let this blest assurance control,
That Christ hath regarded my helpless estate,
And hath shed His own blood for my soul.

My sin—oh, the bliss of this glorious thought!—
My sin, not in part but the whole,
Is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more,
Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul!

For me, be it Christ, be it Christ hence to live:
If Jordan above me shall roll,
No pang shall be mine, for in death as in life
Thou wilt whisper Thy peace to my soul.

But, Lord, ’tis for Thee, for Thy coming we wait,
The sky, not the grave, is our goal;
Oh, trump of the angel! Oh, voice of the Lord!
Blessed hope, blessed rest of my soul!

And Lord, haste the day when the faith shall be sight,
The clouds be rolled back as a scroll;
The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,
Even so, it is well with my soul.

The Weekly Encourager – May 15, 2015 – Have Courage and Be Kind

Two new movies have restored my faith in Hollywood: "Noble" and "Cinderella." See them. Hope and healing. Courage and kindness.

“Noble” is the true story of Christina Noble, a feisty Irish girl who is abandoned and betrayed by her parents. As an orphan she endures much suffering, including physical violation and emotional beating, yet she never loses her faith in God. After each traumatic event, she cries out to the Lord and affirms that He is in charge of her life, therefore He must have something good to bring out of her suffering. The good news is that she's right! God did have a great plan for her life. She had a strong sense of calling to go and help the abandoned orphans in Viet Nam after the War, so she went. This is an amazing and inspiring true story of how God uses trials to prepare a person for productive ministry. She's always looking ahead with courage and hope, and she's willing to work hard to achieve her goals. Her faithful labor of kindness to “the least of these” becomes a path to healing, as she gives these lost children the love she missed. She finds joy and fulfillment in her new life in Viet Nam. What a beautiful testimony of grace!

I wasn't planning to see the latest version of “Cinderella,” but my husband recommended it so highly that I went along. What a treat! What a balm for my wounded heart. This is the story of a girl's grief in losing her beloved parents, and abuse by relatives who remain. Throughout her years of suffering, Cinderella holds on to the good advice she had learned from her parents, “Have courage and be kind.” I love how the filmmakers chose to repeat this saying over and over in the movie, inculcating this truth into young (and old) minds. It's a story of tragedy turned into triumph, a result of the girl's positive choice to be courageous and kind in every situation. Cinderella chooses to rise above the evil of others, doing good to her enemies. Her sincere forgiveness of the wicked stepmother shows her to be a princess indeed. Her grace under trial equipped her to rule a kingdom!

Neither of these are “Christian movies” per se, yet both reflect Christian values very strongly. Both women were refined as gold through suffering. Both showed their true quality and used their lives to bless others. Both are examples of hope, hard work, patience, faithfulness, obedience, courage, kindness, and many other virtues. There are so many bad role models in our culture today, we need to affirm those that are good and support them. Go see these films and take your friends. Open your heart; you will find true encouragement to carry on in whatever work the Lord has given you.

"Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things." - Philippians 4:8

Have courage and be kind,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

The Weekly Encourager – May 5, 2015 – Is Homosexuality a Sin?

I hesitate to post this Encourager for three reasons. 1. I try to avoid political issues in this blog. 2.I try to avoid anything that may be divisive to the Body of Christ, preferring to write only about issues which affect us all, whether we're Baptists, Lutherans, Charismatic, or the Frozen Chosen. 3.I try to avoid passing judgment on how things are done in other congregations, knowing that we'll all be worshipping together one day in Heaven, in that Perfect Church which cannot exist on this earth. However, there's an issue in the news now about which I can't keep silent, because God doesn't keep silent. Homosexuality affects us all. Let me apologize in advance if I cause offense. It's not my intention.

I think there's a huge question in the church today: Is Homosexuality a Sin? According to at least one poll, most Americans still think so, but they're okay with gay marriage. Twenty years ago, less than a quarter of people believed that gay marriage was acceptable; now over half of Americans think it's okay. What about Christians? Recently, yet another mainline Protestant denomination rewrote their rules to allow practicing homosexuals to be ministers of the gospel, in positions of authority over men's souls. Leaders said they gave it much thought, and they concluded that homosexuality was not a sin.

What about you personally? Have you given it much thought? Are you in line with what your church teaches? Are you in line with what Jesus teaches? Do you know the difference?

If your good friend were to speak with you today and “come out” as a homosexual or transgender person, or argue in favor of gay marriage or gay ministers, what would you do? I think every Christian ought to know what God says about it, in order to speak knowledgeably to friends, family, and community. If Christians don't understand the truth, then how will we be salt and light?

Romans 1:24-31 is my go-to passage to explain why the practice of homosexuality is wrong. God says these passions are dishonorable because they are unnatural, contrary to nature the way God set it up when He made us. People who practice these things have lost a sense of shame for their error. Along with other sinners listed in this passage, homosexuals do not acknowledge God, they are debased, they do what ought not to be done. Finally, they give hearty approval to others who practice the same evils. There's an agenda to change society's rules, so that they cannot be reproofed or punished for their perversions.

What of those who say, “I was born that way?” Yeah, maybe, but it's still wrong. You may have been born with a genetic predisposition to become an alcoholic, but that does not excuse becoming one. You don't just give up and say, “I was born to be an alcoholic, so pour me another drink.” You knuckle down and fight that much harder. It's the same if you have a genetic predisposition to be a gossip or a thief, a murderer, or an adulterer. If you've been redeemed by Jesus Christ, you want to do what is right, and the Holy Spirit gives you the power to do it.

I believe that the ongoing persistent lifestyle of homosexuality, without any remorse or effort to change one's behavior, is sin. Notice I did not say anyone who does a homosexual act. I have known those who regret their actions, acknowledge their sin, and beg God to change them. They repent and seek the Lord, rather than continuing freely in what they know is wrong. They may stumble, but they keep trying to do right. These sinners should be welcomed into our congregations, for they are no different than you and me. We are to forgive them 70×7, as we ourselves wish to be forgiven.

No matter how much we love these dear friends and family members, homosexuality is wrong, and we can't be wishy-washy about sin. Of course, my sins are just as bad as theirs. I also deserve death. If not for the mercy of God, I might have fallen into homosexuality myself, or something else equally horrible. Actually, I have failed to worship God and love Him with my whole heart, soul, mind, and strength. I have broken all 10 commandments at one time or another, in my heart if not in action, so I'm just as bad. But the Lord brought me up out of the miry pit and set my feet upon solid ground – thanks be to God!

We must treat ALL people with dignity and respect, no matter what their color, religion, politics, or “preference.” Christ came for sinners like us. How did Jesus deal with sinners in His day? He spoke with them, ate with them, stayed in their homes, befriended them, listened to them, admonished them, loved them. He died for them. But He did NOT place unrepentant sinners in positions of authority in the church!

I believe that those who cannot see God's clear truth in Romans 1 (not to mention the other places in the Bible that agree) have scales over their eyes. We need to pray earnestly for our brothers and sisters in Christ who have been blinded to the truth of God's holy Word. But more than that, we need to pray earnestly that the leaders of Christian churches everywhere will turn to God's Word as the source of faith and practice, rather than being swayed by society and the ideas of men.

With current challenges to Biblical marriage on many fronts, there is an urgent need to pray for those in civil authority, including all three branches of U.S. government, our state and local governments, and our school boards. Far-reaching decisions are being made as I write this today. Pray for wise rules and good policies based on God's timeless truth, not the wishes of vocal minorities. Speak to power where appropriate. Then pray for all authority in the church. Be informed by God's Word; refuse to unite with any church which does not recognize God's Word as the sole standard. The enemy is strong; we need our full armor to fight. God is great, and He will prevail!

God is faithful,
j

The Weekly Encourager – April 28, 2015 – A Threefold Cord

God's timing is perfect. While Dave and I were wrestling with the most difficult ongoing issue in our marriage, I was asked to give the devotional at a bridal shower! Of course I said yes, knowing that I could trust the Lord for what to say to this bride-to-be, just as I've trusted the Lord to preserve our marriage all these years.

After an honest discussion and earnest prayer, Dave and I gained a bit more insight into our issue and were ready to soldier on. At that point, I told Dave that I needed a handle for the devotional. Marriage is a huge topic, but I needed something I could say in five minutes at a shower. Since the young couple are musicians (as we are), I thought maybe a musical analogy of a “divine duet” or a symphony might work, but I wasn't feeling it. Dave responded that his favorite analogy was the threefold cord that is not easily broken. We had a nice talk about what we've learned in 35+ years of marriage, and that conversation became the basis of this talk.

Here is Ecclesiastes 4:12 in three different translations, each of which adds more meaning. “And if one can overpower him who is alone, two can resist him. A cord of three strands is not quickly torn apart.” - NASB

“And one standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer; three is even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.” - TLB

“Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.” - NKJV

Dave said this is particularly true when each strand is made of a different material! That's how they make elastic: they combine a stretchy strand with one of load-bearing strength. This achieves a stronger and more flexible rope than combining any single type of cord with others like itself. This is God's principle of biodiversity: compounds are better than single elements, and they make a more sustainable environment. In marriage, sometimes you need to be flexible, and sometimes you need to be strong. There's a cooperative balance: one man, one woman, one God. Dave also told me that a cord performs best when it's tightest!

If you look up “threefold” in a dictionary, you find that it has two main meanings: having three parts or members, and being three times as great or as many. Both apply to marriage.

What makes a Christian marriage stronger and more flexible is being intertwined with that third element, the Lord God of the universe, to guide, support, and protect that union in Christ. God uses marriage as one of His top tools to mold us into the image of His Son, that we may be holy before Him, and fit to do good works for His kingdom. God has a vested interest in keeping couples together, so that they can glorify Him. This is truly a rope of triple strength.

Now for some practical advice from one who has been there. Four words to ponder: pray, priority, practice, persevere.

1. Pray: Your relationship with the Lord is vital. Abide in the vine, for apart from Him your marriage cannot grow. Pray for yourself and for your husband daily; this one habit can make or break your marriage.
2. Priority: Your husband must remain the most important person in your life, above your family of origin, above your children, above your friends, and above your colleagues. Protect your time together. Be his biggest fan and his best friend. Be the lover of his heart's desire.
3. Practice: Develop trust through honesty. Learn the best ways to communicate with him. Find and maintain common interests; they will become a source of joy and companionship into old age. When your husband asks you to do something, submit; God will honor it. Marriage is hard work, but so worth it.
4. Persevere: Promise each other that divorce is not an option. Once you're woven together, that's it. Don't let Satan talk in your ear – he wants to tie you in knots. If you let him, he'll make you so wrapped up in your problems that you're useless. The biggest reasons for divorce are money, sex, and in-laws. Don't let these or anything else come between you. Keep your rope tight. Finally, keep mending the rope; don't let the ends fray. God may have to burn the ends with fire; accept the discipline of the Lord and be grateful. Press on.

At the wedding, when you make that commitment for life, Jesus is standing there with you. He has one arm around each of you as you make your vows, then walk together down that aisle. You are now a threefold cord. “Therefore, what God has joined together, let no man separate.” A threefold cord is not easily broken, for God is faithful.

God is faithful
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

The Weekly Encourager – April 20, 2015 - Victory!

I have good news to share: God gives amazing victory!

A few weeks ago I wrote that I was trying to be thankful in a difficult relationship. [To protect a reputation, I am not saying who the person is or whether it's a man or woman; I will use “he” for simplicity.] This person had treated me pretty badly. I was hurt, and I had to run to the Lord. I knew that God had promised to uphold me, help me, and guide me. After a quick but urgent prayer, my first action was to call the individual and ask questions, giving him opportunity to speak his mind. Throughout this very challenging conversation, some things happened. Naturally, I was shocked and hurt by what he thought of me. This whole conflict was totally unexpected. Yet I knew and felt the warm presence of the Lord by my side at the same time. Here was another test of my progress as a Christian disciple: how would I respond to this person's evil accusations?

Well, I can tell you what I wanted to do. I wanted to counter his arguments immediately with the truth from my perspective, to convince him somehow that his impressions of me were wrong. I wanted to defend myself against the arrows zinging my way. Also, I was sorely tempted to bring up some of the many ways he had hurt me over the years. I wanted to launch a few zingers of my own. But I am thankful that during that phone call, the Holy Spirit in me was greater than the desires of the flesh. I decided to make no defense and no offense. I simply made sincere apology for every personality trait he criticized and every action of mine which he didn't like. “A soft answer turns away wrath” and “turn the other cheek.” It was no coincidence that this happened around Easter, when I was already thinking about Christ's road to the cross. It was time to put truth into action. I agreed to do everything the person requested, whether I wanted to or not. I chose to give honor and respect, whether he did or not.

After the call ended, I continued to pray for many days, and I asked others to pray. I knew that God was sovereign over this situation, but I had absolutely no emotional strength left to deal with it on my own. I prayed for wisdom and understanding, and what to do next, since this person wanted to jettison the relationship. In particular, I was very upset about certain possessions he had, that belong to my family. These are items of sentimental value to me (no monetary value), but he refused to give them to me. I was hurt, but the Lord convicted me that I had placed too high a value on getting these items. I was complaining to the Lord that this other person was too materialistic, yet I saw that my desire to own these few items was materialistic. I was complaining to the Lord that this other person was too manipulative, yet I saw that I was tempted to use these items to manipulate him.

With lots of prayer, using Scriptures that came my way during those weeks and counsel from my husband and others, I decided that I needed to give up any claim to those family items. The Good Shepherd was calling me, saying, “You are not in a good place. Walk down this road with Me a little farther and learn how good I can be to you.” This was huge for me, but I obeyed, figuring I would be crying over the loss. But, as soon as I made the decision to let it go, I felt as if a burden had slid off my back. I had been carrying around those family items for years on my back without ever knowing it! I made a conscious decision to trust in the Lord, and He gave such immediate and unexpected relief. It was like being washed with a warm golden shower of peace.

At that moment, lines from an old song came back to me, and with great joy I sang:

I will sing unto the Lord for He has triumphed gloriously: the horse and rider thrown into the sea!
I will sing unto the Lord for He has triumphed gloriously: the grave is empty, won't you come and see?

The grave is empty! Christ is risen! He was accused falsely, yet did not answer back. He was killed wrongly, yet rose above it all. “Forgive them, for they know not what they do.” My next action was to write a short email to the difficult person, again being as kind as possible and assuring him that I would do as he asked. No defense, no offense, no mention of the family items. A day later, I was amazed when the response I got was positive! I'm not sure whether the person wants to continue the relationship, or what the future holds, but I am sure that God did this!

The Lord calls me to take the high road, no matter how low the other guy goes. The Lord calls me to love my enemies and do good to them, no matter how wrong they are. The Lord calls me to value my eternal inheritance above the most precious possessions here on earth.  The Lord calls me to humble myself, and let Him lift me up if He chooses. Jesus Christ gave me the victory, and I owe Him all the praise.

God gives the Victory!
j

The Weekly Encourager – April 10, 2015 – How to Live to 100

It should be no surprise that the Easter Sunday edition of “The Washington Post” contained little if any reference to Easter. Fifty years ago, the assumption was that virtually everyone would celebrate Easter, and newspapers reflected that. Twenty or even ten years ago, the front page would have had an article on the Annual White House Easter Egg Roll, or which church the president planned to attend, what the First Lady might wear, or even the latest research on the “historical” Jesus.

This year, the lead article was “Tech Titans' Latest Project: Defy Death” with the subtitle “The Human Upgrade.” The first sentence gives us a preview: “For centuries, explorers have searched the world for the fountain of youth. Today's billionaires believe they can create it, using technology and data.” The piece gave several examples of rich people funding expensive research, with the goal of trying to prolong life on this earth.

“Parade” magazine, the thin pop culture tidbit that is inserted in every major newspaper in the country, on Easter featured a “Cheater's Guide to Living to 100” as their main topic. While that article contained some excellent suggestions for optimizing your health, the emphasis was on living as long as you can. After all, you only go around once, right?

Right. According to Scripture, this life is mercifully short, which is fine since there's another life to come. But people don't see that. The unbelieving world around us is scared, because even with all our medical advances, inventions, and improvements, we're still going to get old and die. Recently, the two oldest people on earth died. Misao Okawa of Japan was 117 years old when she died. Five days later, Gertrude Weaver, 116, died in Arkansas. It's obvious to everyone that to live even to 100 is exceptional. I watched the recent documentary on PBS called, “Cancer: The Emperor of All Maladies.” That's the holy grail of medicine: to cure cancer so we can live forever.

Just before Easter, 148 Christians in Kenya were murdered for their faith in Christ. A few weeks earlier, Christians in a different country defended the faith and died for it. All of these brothers and sisters showed amazing courage in the face of persecution, and this past Sunday, they spent their first Easter in Heaven. Now that's life and death in the fast lane. The Lord says. “To him who endures, I will give a crown of life.”

Isn't it interesting that everyone's talking about trying to defy death at Easter? Sorry, folks, there is only one way to defy death: to believe in the Lord Jesus, the only Man who defied death and defeated it once and for all! Jesus is the only One who can offer us “The Human Upgrade” - new bodies in which to enjoy perfect health forever. No more cancer, no more aging, no pain, no depression, no suffering of any kind. This new long life is available to any who trust in Christ, whether rich or poor, well-educated or not, strong or weak, tech titan or trash collector. The world looks to Science to save them, but God sent His Son to bring salvation and eternal life. Jesus' blood is the only fountain of youth that will ever be found.

My goal is not to live to 100, but to live for Christ in whatever time I have left. With the Holy Spirit's help, may I know and show the love of Christ more and more each day. By God's power within me, if I am called upon to choose, may I be brave enough to die for my faith, knowing that death is only a doorway into an eternal life worth living. Thanks be to God!

God is faithful,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

The Weekly Encourager – April 4, 2015 – Easter Dinner

Many of you are preparing today for an Easter celebration tomorrow, planning on a joyous church service followed by feasting with family and friends. Christians have so much to celebrate: forgiveness of sins through Jesus' death and resurrection, and the promise of eternal blessedness with the Father. Praise the Lord!

Thinking about Easter Dinner, a recent sermon by Elder Matt Bowles on Biblical Hospitality was a good reminder of Jesus' brand of hospitality. Matt read from Luke 7, where the Son of Man came “eating and drinking” at Simon's house. In that culture, the Pharisees kept things ritually pure, especially in the inner room where meals were eaten. Sinners who had not gone through the proper procedures were not allowed into the inner room, but had to remain in an outer courtyard. Yet, Jesus welcomed a woman who was a known sinner, a woman who had a bad reputation in that town, a person who didn't have the normal social standing and skills that would be expected at such a gathering. Jesus' welcoming of her showed that His reputation was now linked to hers! He would answer any objections against her.

Objections did arise. “What's she doing here? Can't You see she's a sinner? She doesn't belong with us.” Jesus showed how this woman was a better hostess than Simon the Pharisee, then He dropped a spiritual bomb. Luke 7:47 has got to be one of the most precious verses in the Bible. It certainly expresses the spirit of Easter. Jesus said, “Her sins, which are many, have been forgiven, for she loved much, but he who is forgiven little, loves little.” What an encouragement to anyone who has ever felt that his or her sins are too horrible to be forgiven! Sinner, this verse is for you. The greater your feelings of failure, the more faith you will have in Christ when He forgives you, and the more you will love and honor Him. This woman came with humility, weeping over her sins. She didn't let social convention get in the way; she bypassed the works of outward obedience in favor of inward faith. She came with sincerity, and Jesus had compassion on her need. She came with hope, and He gave her healing. Hallelujah!

Who is coming to your Easter Dinner? Did you invite only those who fit in? Could you perhaps invite a widow, a college student far from home, a neighbor no one gets along with, a colleague visiting from another country, some singles from your church, a military family whose dad or mom is serving abroad, someone persecuted for their religious beliefs? Could you invite the one who is a little “strange” and give him a sense of belonging? Might you know someone of poor reputation or humble means who might be blessed by the love of Christ in your home?

Jesus showed us that meals can be a means of inclusion, not exclusion. We, the Forgiven, are to invite the sinner, the misfit, the outcast, the sojourner, the bruised reed, and give them the hope we have in Christ. Remember that we were outsiders to God, yet we've been brought inside, into the innermost room, and given a seat at the Lord's holy table! Grace leads to intimacy. In the Bible, eating food together is a picture of fellowship and joy. At the table, strangers become friends, enemies become sons and daughters. Understanding the grace of God is the beginning of hospitality.

May the Lord bless you with great Resurrection Rejoicing this weekend! However you celebrate, may you feel the warm rays of the light of Christ and His love for you.

He is risen!
J

To hear Matt Bowles' wonderful message given on March 22, 2015, use this link: http://newhopefairfax.org/resources/sermons-to-hear

The Weekly Encourager – March 20, 2015 – Seeing God's Hand...and Wrist

“Shall we receive only pleasant things from the hand of God and never anything unpleasant?” - Job 2:10

A lot has happened since I last wrote here. It's been a time of ups and downs. Shortly after my last post, I traveled to see one of my quilts displayed in a major judged and juried show. It was an honor to have my original work in the company of such high artistic and technical achievement. Also, this particular piece had been rejected by another show, but my friend Gitta encouraged me to try again, so this acceptance was an affirmation. Due to a large snowstorm hitting that area, the highways were perfectly plowed yet deserted, so I made excellent time on the trip. I felt so much joyful anticipation that day and I was praising the Lord!

The next morning I arrived early and eager at the Convention Center, and promptly slipped on black ice in the parking lot! To spare you a lot of boring details, I fell on my wrist, and it turned out to be a bad sprain and a big pain. After about five hours of waiting at three different places, I was finally seen and given x-rays, splint, pain meds, etc. In addition, there were problems at my hotel (no hot water, etc.). If you view the characteristics of my personality type, you'll see that incompetence and inefficiency are two things that drive me nuts, and there were plenty of nuts! With only one hand, everything from dressing to driving to making meals to taking a bath (did I mention no hot water?) took twice as long as usual, and I was in a lot of pain. So, was I praising the Lord as I had been the previous day?

Sort of. If you've been following this blog, you know I've been thinking about thankfulness for some time. By God's grace, I started seeing God's hand in everything that was happening. That Job verse came up in my daily devotional and really struck me: “Shall we receive only pleasant things from the hand of God and never anything unpleasant?” - Job 2:10 I had a very pleasant day in which everything went right, followed by a very unpleasant day in which several things went wrong. I knew that God was testing me, to see if I'd still be rejoicing on Day 2. And I was! I'm not saying it was easy, but the Holy Spirit gave me strength developed by the discipline of practice.

My Pilates teacher calls it Pre-hab, instead of Rehab. You work all your muscles now and build up strength, so that if you fall and sprain your wrist, you'll heal faster. I saw the truth of this with my own eyes: for years I've been deliberately carrying weights and doing many tasks with my non-dominant hand in an effort to be more ambidextrous. After this recent injury, I saw just how much I've come to rely upon that second hand. Yet I know I've been healing much more quickly than I would have, had I never challenged that hand's capacity on a regular basis. There's an obvious spiritual parallel. Work those muscles of gratitude every day. Believe God's word when He says He's in control of all things, He does all that He plans to do, He uses evil for good, He disciplines those He loves, He strengthens us, He never leaves us. Be thankful, no matter what God sends your way! It's all for His perfect glory and our perfect good.

A few days later, a far worse thing happened to me than a sprained wrist. Someone close betrayed me, attributed false motives to me, accused me of lying, stealing, and more. This person was fed up with me and wanted nothing more to do with me, and told others that fact before telling me. The words were like being punched in the gut. I was an emotional basket case for the whole day. I think the only thing I “accomplished” that day was loading the dishwasher. I lost a full day of work. Yet, that day was part of God's plan, too. Again, it was test time in the Godly School of Gratitude. In those situations, it's harder to find things to thank God for – you just sit on the sofa and cry. Yet, after a time of crying out to our Lord who is “a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief,” the Comforter surrounds you with his warm light. “Shall we receive only pleasant things from the hand of God and never anything unpleasant?” - Job 2:10 I was able to thank God for the many wonderful relationships I do have with family and friends, and many more blessings besides.

This life is not fair, but God is good. His hand will bring pleasant days and unpleasant ones, as needed to conform us to the image of the Lord Jesus Christ. The hand that feeds us and sometimes slaps us will also hold us so that we never fall out. Jesus' love is not fickle like that of people, but faithful and true. His wrists bear the marks of that Supreme Love. Thank God!

God is faithful,
j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

The Weekly Encourager – February 22, 2015 – Six Truths About Temptation

Today we had the opportunity to attend a different church. The minister's message was about Christ's temptation and ours. Here are some of his observations and my thoughts: Six Truths About Temptation.

1. We will be tempted, because Christ was tempted. There are interesting parallels between God's nation of Israel in the Old Testament and Christ's path in the New. Jesus' baptism recalls Israel's passing through the Red Sea, His 40 difficult days in the desert recall Israel's 40 years of wandering, and Jesus' temptation in the wilderness parallels the temptation of Adam and Eve in the Garden. Of course, Adam and Eve failed to resist their temptation, while Christ succeeded. He was tempted in every way like us, yet without sin. Thanks be to God.

2. Satan appeals to our vanity. He doesn't approach us saying, “Hey, do you want to be like me?” Instead, he approaches us saying, “Do you want to be like God?” Remember that Eve was asked if she wanted the knowledge (and therefore power) of God by eating fruit from the Tree. She might not have eaten the fruit if she hadn't felt already entitled to its benefits.

3. Satan appeals to our strengths. He only asks us to do things he knows that we can do. Satan knew Eve could reach the low-hanging fruit. Satan knew Jesus could turn stone into bread if He wished. Satan knew Jesus could come down from the cross, for He was God. The greater your abilities, the greater the temptation that will be presented to you. (Perhaps this is why some who have been given great spiritual gifts fall so hard later on? They think they can handle more than they really can.)

4. Satan appeals to our short-sightedness. Satan shows a short-term perspective; he doesn't advertise consequences down the road. He doesn't ask us to do something that would immediately make us look bad or feel bad. He doesn't say, “Do you want to lose your family and your job?” but rather, “Do you want the freedom to fool around and have fun?” Often what he suggests is just what “everyone else” around us is already doing.

5. Satan appeals to our laziness. He offers an easy path, because Satan wants a different kind of follower. Satan appealed to Jesus with promises of pride, power, and position, but giving in to those things would make Jesus a different kind of Messiah. When we give in to what Satan suggests, we're giving in to what's easier in the moment, rather than choosing the difficult path of discipleship. God has a plan for us to become like Jesus in every way, conformed to His holy image. But Christ's road to Resurrection went by way of the cross. Take up your cross and follow Me, He says. Do we want our Easter without Good Friday?

6. Christ is there to help us! Praise God! We can call on the only One who was able to resist every temptation and to walk in perfect righteousness, the One who suffered and died to forgive our sins, the One who was obedient unto death, then rose again in glory! Emmanuel, God is with us. Be ye glad.

God is faithful,
j

These thoughts were stimulated by the sermon of Rev. Dr. Timothy Gerde, Lead Pastor of Fairfax United Methodist Church, Fairfax, VA. It's nice sometimes to worship with a different denomination: we get a greater sense of the whole of God's kingdom. We are encouraged to see how He's building His church in many places and many ways. They may have minor differences in doctrine, but these are our brothers and sisters in Christ, and we need to unite with them in a world of increasing secularism on the one hand, and violent religious extremism on the other. Thanks be to God for the fellowship of believers!

The Weekly Encourager – February 4, 2015 – Two Twins in the Womb

Today I'm sharing a thought-provoking short story, originally composed by Útmutató a Léleknek in Hungarian. He lets us listen in on a conversation between two twins in their mother’s womb.

In a mother's womb were two babies. One asked the other: “Do you believe in life after delivery?”
The other replied, “Why, of course. There has to be something after delivery. Maybe we are here to prepare ourselves for what we will be later.”
“Nonsense” said the first. “There is no life after delivery. What kind of life would that be?”
The second said, “I don't know, but there will be more light than here. Maybe we will walk with our legs and eat from our mouths. Maybe we will have other senses that we can't understand now.”
The first replied, “That is absurd. Walking is impossible. And eating with our mouths? Ridiculous! The umbilical cord supplies nutrition and everything we need. But the umbilical cord is so short. Life after delivery is logically excluded.”
The second insisted, “Well I think there is something and maybe it's different than it is here. Maybe we won't need this physical cord anymore.”
The first replied, “Nonsense. And moreover if there is life, then why has no one ever come back from there? Delivery is the end of life, and in the after-delivery there is nothing but darkness and silence and oblivion. It takes us nowhere.”
“Well, I don't know,” said the second, “but certainly we will meet Mother and she will take care of us.”
The first replied, “Mother? You actually believe in Mother? That's laughable. If Mother exists then where is She now?”
The second said, “She is all around us. We are surrounded by Her. We are of Her. It is in Her that we live. Without Her this world would not and could not exist.”
Said the first: “Well I don't see Her, so it is only logical that She doesn't exist.”
To which the second replied, “Sometimes, when you're in silence and you focus and you really listen, you can perceive Her presence, and you can hear Her loving voice calling down from above.”

The Bible says that faith is believing even when you can't see. Might we use this story to start a dialogue with an unbelieving friend? May God bless you as you seek to share His truth with the world around you.

God is faithful,
j

Note: I have not been able to find out much about author or translator, but I wanted to share the story anyway, because it's just that good. If anyone has more information, please share it in the Comment section below.

The Weekly Encourager – January 27, 2015 – My Weakness, His Strength

My weakness, His strength. I've been reminded of the truth of this concept. I've been struggling to do something important for a deadline, and I keep running into unforeseen difficulties. Very frustrating! It seems that my skills are not what they once were in solving these kinds of problems. I had thought I could impress people with my ability, but instead, I've been feeling pretty low. Lord, I'm trying to do this for Your glory, why is it so hard?

Guess what came up this morning in my devotional reading? The apostle Paul, that great giant of the faith, feeling frustrated with ongoing difficulty in his life, asks for God to please remove it, take it away, smooth his path.

Paul reports, “Each time he [God] said, 'No. But I am with you; that is all you need. My power shows up best in weak people.' Now I am glad to boast about how weak I am; I am glad to be a living demonstration of Christ's power, instead of showing off my own power and abilities. Since I know it is all for Christ's good, I am quite happy about 'the thorn,' and about insults and hardships, persecutions and difficulties; for when I am weak, then I am strong – the less I have, the more I depend on him.” - 2 Corinthians 12:9-11 TLB

God's answer to Paul's prayer flies in the face of the “health wealth success happiness” gospel preached by some. Fervent belief in Christ does not guarantee an easy path through life. In fact, the Bible tells us that true believers will go through many trials to test their faith. “Don't be surprised when you go through fiery trials. Instead, rejoice because these trials will make you partners with Christ in His suffering.” - 1 Peter 4:12-13 These trials are to grow us in “perseverance and proven character and hope.” - Romans 5:3-5 What can we say say to friends who tell us that if we only prayed harder with more true faith, our prayers would be answered: our problems solved, our relationships healed, our cancer removed? Our Lord Jesus, the Son of God, prayed so hard that blood dripped from His forehead. If an all-wise and all-loving God said No to Jesus and Paul, then He just might say No to me. These problems must have a purpose.

That purpose is revealed further on in the passage: I am to be a living demonstration of Christ's power. Like Paul, I am to be thankful in all things, even rejoicing in the difficulties God allows in my life. The less I have, the more I must depend on Him. What's more important to God: the fact that my skills are lacking, or that my patience is lacking? Is it this particular task, or my attitude while doing it? He is forming Christ's character in me, and He will use whatever means necessary to that end, that I might shine forth with the light of Christ's glory in all I do. Today, I guess that means I need to look like Christ during the most frustrating challenges of this project, not just on the day when I present it all complete and beautiful.

We must never forget that we are Christ's project. He will present us blameless, complete, and beautiful before the Father one day. How we will rejoice when all our weakness has made us strong in Him! We will stand as mighty oaks beside a river of water, bringing forth our fruit in its season, the fruit that heals the nations. Oh Lord, let us seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, gaining strength from Your river of spiritual life. Give us the true faith of total dependence upon You. May we look to You so that we can look like You. To God be all glory.

God is faithful,
j

The Weekly Encourager – January 14, 2015 – Don't Tell God What to Do!

Have you ever asked God for a specific solution to a problem? I know I have, many times. How was that prayer answered? In my experience, sometimes God does exactly what I wanted in the situation, but other times, He does exactly the reverse! Or He uses a different method to achieve the same result, a method which I never saw coming. Or, He moves in a different way to achieve a far better result, above what I could even ask or imagine!

I am reminded of one Christmas when I was about five or six years old, and I had asked my parents for a locket necklace. What I wanted was a Polly Pocket, which was a colorful plastic egg-shaped contraption containing a little doll. Very kid-like, trendy, and girly. What Dad chose for me instead was a beautiful delicate lady's locket made of real gold on a lovely chain. Photos show me wearing this in grade school. I still have it and it's still in style, and it always will be. Dad knew I would have tired of the Polly Pocket in a year or two, or it would have been broken, and he was right. As usual, he chose to give a quality gift rather than junk.

After Christmas this year, Pastor Paul Wolfe preached from Matthew 2 about what happened after Jesus was born. After the angels, shepherds, and wise men departed, did Jesus move into a golden palace to begin His reign on earth with everyone happy to see Him in a position of power? No, He and His family were forced to flee, due to Herod's evil slaying of all Hebrew boys aged two and under. The sermon title was “The Attempted Assassination of the Messiah.” The baby Jesus' early years were tumultuous, yet God was at work the whole time, protecting His anointed one, fulfilling prophecies from hundreds of years before. Evil is evident, but God still rules. His Son, and all His children, may be persecuted, yet they will be preserved. “His banner over me is love.”

Pastor Paul shared the following quote from John Calvin's commentary on the Matthew passage:

“We are here taught, that God has more than one way of preserving his own people. Sometimes he makes astonishing displays of his power; while at other times he employs dark coverings or shadows, from which feeble rays of it escape. This wonderful method of preserving the Son of God under the cross teaches us, that they act improperly who prescribe to God a fixed plan of action. Let us permit him to advance our salvation by a diversity of methods; and let us not refuse to be humbled, that he may more abundantly display his glory. Above all, let us never avoid the cross, by which the Son of God himself was trained from his earliest infancy. This flight is a part of the foolishness of the cross, but it surpasses all the wisdom of the world. That he may appear at his own time as the Savior of Judea, he is compelled to flee from it, and is nourished by Egypt, from which nothing but what was destructive to the Church of God had ever proceeded. Who would not have regarded with amazement such an unexpected work of God?” - John Calvin

God's thoughts and ways are higher than mine, and I need to remember that as I pray. Far better for me to spend most of my prayer time praising God for His intelligence, power, goodness, mercy, and love, than in prescribing particular plans for how I think things should be done.

God is God, and He's the Man with a Plan. He sees far into the future, and superintends all of history, of which my little life is only one small part. He is the Loving Father who gives gold when we ask for plastic. Lord, teach me humility and faith.

God is faithful,

j

Copyright 2015 Janet A. Marney

The Calvin quote comes from his commentary on Matthew (vol. 16 in Calvin’s Commentaries, p. 155).

The Weekly Encourager – January 8, 2015 – A Word for the Year

The Weekly Encourager – January 8, 2015 – A Word for the Year

Do you find it hard to commit to intensive Bible Studies in which you study multiple concepts each week and dozens each month? Maybe you're a mom with small children who need constant attention, or caring for disabled or aged relatives, or getting an advanced degree, or starting a new business endeavor, or struggling with chronic illness. You may be in a busy season of life with little time to devote, yet you know how important it is to hide God's word in your heart.

This holiday season, I was introduced to the idea of choosing only one word to study and meditate upon and grow from for the entire upcoming year. I've been reading “One Perfect Word: One Word Can Make All the Difference” by Debbie Macomber. For over 20 years, Macomber has been meeting with the same group of women each week. She relates, “every January we've each selected a word to serve as a personal focus for the year. Over time the words I've chosen have had a powerful impact on my life....When I find my word and begin to explore it, God takes me deep into that one word....When we choose one single word from His Word and spend a year with it, I've found that the Lord takes us by the hand and walks us through the year, teaching us about that word, about ourselves, and even more, about God Himself.”

“One Word That Will Change Your Life” by Dan Britton, Jimmy Page, and Jon Gordon, advises you to simplify your life and business by focusing on just one word for the entire year, making it a catalyst for change. This book explains how your word can impact the six dimensions of your life: mental, physical, emotional, relational, spiritual, and financial. The thought is that a list of lofty resolutions is easily forgotten, but one word lends a laser-like focus, providing power for positive change. They also say, “The most important part of life-change is a change of the heart” and “one word frees us up.” Serving, Purpose, Grace, Surrender, Power, and Discipline are examples of words that these authors say have transformed their lives. A group of people can choose the same word if they will be working together toward the same goal.

In a blog called One Word 365, Brittany Barbera invites people to join “a global tribe committed to journeying together and living intentionally. You can connect with others who have chosen the same word or live in your area. Together we can inspire and challenge each other.” There's a great list of word suggestions if you need one.

How do we choose our word for the year? One way would be to sit down and review the past year. Where did I succeed, by God's grace? What worked, and what didn't? What needs to change? You might draw up new goals for the coming year. One year Macomber chose Desire as her word, since she wanted to make significant progress toward her deep desire to be a writer. Another year she chose Hunger as her word, because she was motivated to deal with over-eating. Another year she was plagued with anxiety about circumstances in her life, so she chose the word Trust.

A second way to choose the word would be to prayerfully ask the Lord to reveal it to you. He may already be doing so, but you haven't been paying attention. I have found that sometimes the same word or concept will keep cropping up. Now you know that's not coincidence! During the last couple weeks of December and into the first week of January, I have found one word appearing in several different ways: in a Christmas carol, in a sermon at church, in a book I was reading, in conversation with a friend, in my regular devotional reading, in a song on the radio. That word is Light, and every time I see or hear it, it seems illuminated by the Spirit so that I won't miss it. I am confident that this is something the Lord wants me to study at this time in my life, although I couldn't say why. I don't know what the new year will bring.

I'm excited about exploring this word from many angles, looking up Scriptures about it, and meditating upon it throughout the year. There may be times when I have opportunity to do some serious word study, including looking up the Greek and Hebrew terms, using a concordance to see all the ways the word is used in the Bible, reading what commentaries have to say, etc. There may be other times when all I can do is think about the word and ask God to help me remember that He is Light during a demanding or dark time. Although I am terrible at memorization, maybe I'll be able to memorize some key verses about Light. What a blessing it will be to gain a better grasp of even one of God's many attributes!

If you're not already doing a Bible study, I challenge you to think about choosing one word for the year. Let me know how it works out, and what the Lord shows you. Macomber says that as she looks back at the end of the year, she can see how God used that word in her personal journey in ways she would not have expected as the year began. God works all things for good!

God is faithful,

j

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